Wamide’s Newsletter

  You’re worthy of being loved as deeply and purely as you love.  Don’t ever let anyone make you doubt that, ever.  I hope you understand that rejection isn’t a reflection of your worth. If someone tells you they don’t want you, believe them the first time. It doesn’t mean that there’s something wrong with you. So, you really shouldn’t be waiting around for them to change their mind or give you false hope. You deserve someone who knows they want you from the start.  I know it’s easy to lower your standards when you’re feeling rejected, but that’s not the way to find happiness. Loneliness and the fear of being alone might push you to settle for what you’re better than, but you’re only going to harm yourself sooner or later - emotionally and mentally. It’s okay for you to feel hurt or sad, you can cry all you want ( if you’re a crybaby like me ) but don’t dwell on it for too long.  These things are easier said than done sha. Trust me, I know. Rejection should neve...

https://spotify.link/9D1CKKi3wyb I need you guys to listen to this song before you read any further.  When Stanley Okorie was writing that song, he had me in mind. Because that’s exactly what I am. No single iota of shame in my bones.  I hate the mushiness that comes with catching feelings. ( Maybe hate is a strong word, but you know what I mean ).  Let me tell you how I know whenever I am finished: I’ll be on my own o, then your text just pops up on my phone and I start smiling sheepishly  I constantly have you on my mind  I always want to be in your space. It doesn’t even matter if we’re doing anything or not, I just want to be with you. Something as simple as running errands together is enough to make me happy  I start looking forward to calls or texts from you I feel so comfortable around you and I want to be babied If I start thinking of getting things for you, even if it means sending you lunch  I’ll be going about my busy day at work and I rando...